TRIGGER WARNING: CISSEXISM 
[Real men don’t wear pettis. Brolitas look as cheap as this secret. All brolitas are sissys in hiding.]
Ew. That pretty much sums up my thoughts on this secret.
"Real men" is where my problems start with this. If any of you are thinking of using the phrase "real men" or "real women" for anything every STOP. STOP RIGHT THERE. All male identified people are real men and all female identified people are real women and anyone who identifies otherwise is a real whatever their identity is. There are not exceptions for people based on race, size, how they dress, ect. Specifically when it comes to size there is way too much body shaming in both the thinspo and fatspo and healthspo movements. That is a whole different rant though.
So with that understanding “real men” can wear whatever they damn well please. Whether it is lumberjack shirts or pettis and frills. “Brolitas look as cheap as this secret” b-lolitas can/are just as well put together and beautiful as other lolitas. Like as OP even seen some of them? Please see here here here and here for some of my personal favorites. These are people I legit look up to because I think their lolita is so kickass. 
I’m not even sure what that last bit means? Sissys in hiding. Like, 
sis·sy
Noun
derogatory. A person regarded as effeminate or cowardly.

Okay, derogatory, obviously meant as an insult, not news. A person regarded as effeminate or cowardly. Okay so they’re effeminate, this isn’t always 100% true but I think generally, yes, if they’re wearing dresses and wigs and pettis and stuff there is probably a part of them that is effeminate. Cowardly though? COWARDLY? I don’t think someone who is willing to go out or post online or even just dress in their home in a manner that is considered strange in the first place, add the fact that society thinks pretty negatively of men in traditionally feminine clothing and I think these guys are ANYTHING BUT cowardly. I think it takes some serious bravery to do that. 


-K

TRIGGER WARNING: CISSEXISM 

[Real men don’t wear pettis. Brolitas look as cheap as this secret. All brolitas are sissys in hiding.]


Ew. That pretty much sums up my thoughts on this secret.

"Real men" is where my problems start with this. If any of you are thinking of using the phrase "real men" or "real women" for anything every STOP. STOP RIGHT THERE. All male identified people are real men and all female identified people are real women and anyone who identifies otherwise is a real whatever their identity is. There are not exceptions for people based on race, size, how they dress, ect. Specifically when it comes to size there is way too much body shaming in both the thinspo and fatspo and healthspo movements. That is a whole different rant though.

So with that understanding “real men” can wear whatever they damn well please. Whether it is lumberjack shirts or pettis and frills. “Brolitas look as cheap as this secret” b-lolitas can/are just as well put together and beautiful as other lolitas. Like as OP even seen some of them? Please see here here here and here for some of my personal favorites. These are people I legit look up to because I think their lolita is so kickass. 

I’m not even sure what that last bit means? Sissys in hiding. Like, 

sis·sy
Noun
derogatory. A person regarded as effeminate or cowardly.
Okay, derogatory, obviously meant as an insult, not news. A person regarded as effeminate or cowardly. Okay so they’re effeminate, this isn’t always 100% true but I think generally, yes, if they’re wearing dresses and wigs and pettis and stuff there is probably a part of them that is effeminate. Cowardly though? COWARDLY? I don’t think someone who is willing to go out or post online or even just dress in their home in a manner that is considered strange in the first place, add the fact that society thinks pretty negatively of men in traditionally feminine clothing and I think these guys are ANYTHING BUT cowardly. I think it takes some serious bravery to do that. 

-K

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  1. notyourlolita reblogged this from ezios-fine-ass
  2. ezios-fine-ass reblogged this from feministlolita and added:
    BROLITAS ARE THE FUCKING BEST
  3. bindilover reblogged this from chyphens and added:
    I am a ‘real man’, whatever anyone says to me.
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  5. chyphens reblogged this from feministlolita and added:
    I don’t know anything about lolita but I thought this is a good statement for life in general.
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    ^THIS THIS IS THIS
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